Peace and Quiet
My girls spend a lot of time together. Jude and Elie are inseparable for all the reasons associated with young twins and, apart from when she is in school, Vivi is home with them. Vivi will often try to engage her sisters in her games which generally consist of bossing J&E around in the name of playing "school" or "dance class" or "summer camp." The problem is that Jude and Elie drive Vivi crazy. They don't listen. They don't follow her directions and even worse, they are full of their own ideas. Oh, and sometimes they just. won't. stop. touching. her. stuff. The few harmonious moments of sibling love quickly spiral into a three-way battle for control. I've tried to talk with Vivi about some of the ways that she can deal with her sisters. Her first step is what we have called the counter-offensive. She put this sign on her door: JUDE OR ELIYA CAN'T COME IN!!!!! This is Aviva's room. Onle [only] mom and dad c