I have been all aflutter with preparation for kindergarten. I've purchased an ungodly amount of supplies and snacks, filled out a pile of papers, attended an orientation and a kindergarten playdate, and sewn a super-duper fancy pencil case. I thought I was doing all this to prepare my first-born for kindergarten. What I realized this morning is that I did all that to prepare myself.
Kindergarten is the place where Vivi will really begin to understand that she has autonomy. Family will fade into the background of her school life and time with her friends will become her priority. There will be rules and expectations from other people besides her parents. School isn't about play anymore.
As much as she is ready, Vivi is doing this on her own. Mommy and Daddy won't be in the classroom. She will choose her friends and they won't necessarily be the children of Mommy's friends. She is beginning the process of letting us go.
The question is can I do the right thing and let her go too?